Guidelines about masculine nature and what makes men fall in love with. It is a proposal that can work since women always look for a way to keep the couple in love.
That question: “Why did my husband fall in love with another woman?” Can become obsessive, and yet the answers are so varied that it is impossible to answer in a single note the particular reasons that lead a committed man to fall in love with another woman. Without a doubt, love and marriage require a commitment, and being faithful is also a decision, but despite that commitment and that feeling that one believed to be eternal, infidelity can happen and, when it happens, the woman asks: «Why what happened?” “What did I do wrong?” “Why did my husband fall in love with another woman?” And almost always the answer includes, “I have been an excellent mother and wife.” But, although it is painful to accept it, we always have some responsibility for what happens within the couple. Discover through this article a little about masculine nature and use it to strengthen your relationship, take a risk:
Authors such as John Gray and Walter Riso in their books Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus and Male Intimacies , they have warned: men and women are different. Of course, this is not a secret: the problem is that we are rarely interested in knowing the true nature of men; We have somehow stigmatized them with the phrase: “They are all the same” but, although they seem predictable, there is much to discover. Let’s see what the experts tell us:
They are looking for a friend
Who would believe it? men hope to find a woman with whom to become emotionally intimate. I mean a woman who listens to them, who understands them, a woman who is not afraid to talk about any topic, whatever. That woman who does not react impulsively, who knows how to understand without judging them, who does not interrupt to say “I told you so”, that woman makes them fall in love. Doctors Connell Cowan and Melvyn Kinder in their book The women that men love, the women that men abandon , permanently emphasize the friend they always hope to find, they point out that all men have deep desires, however hidden, of companionship.
They adore the woman who plays
They are looking for someone who is not afraid that the mascara will run from playing with it, men are playful beings by nature, they need to express themselves like children. So do not be afraid to appear childish, play ball with him, a video game, let him bring out his inner child and bring yours in the process.
They want a woman who has her own life
Despite being egocentric, paradoxically they die for the woman who has a life, that her life does not revolve around them, but with love and sweetness they make her understand that they are part of her life, but not all of it.
They love happy women
Ana von Rebeur, Argentine psychologist and writer, expressed in her book Who understands men , something that came to me deeply about what a man expected from a woman, she wrote: «Men only want a woman to be happy.” Yes, they are looking for that woman who loves and accepts herself, who clearly knows what her limitations are but who knows how to make the best of her strengths, that woman who does not make everything a tragedy.
They love the essence of women
What better than to say it themselves. Recently a friend told me, “I love feminine women.” With that he wanted to tell me that they love our essence, they love what differentiates us from them, the ability to be strong without neglecting the subtlety and softness that should characterize us.
They hate the crying that manipulates
And my personal conclusion is that they hate feeling guilty and responsible for our pain and suffering, that’s why they can’t bear our tears. It should be noted that crying is an expression of a feeling that can be of pain or joy, but here I am referring to that cry that women use as a weapon of control and manipulation.
They love women who support and defend them in public
That woman who never thinks of disqualifying him in public despite the problems, that woman conquers them, makes them fall in love.
Perhaps the most important of all is; Learn to know your husband. What does he like, what doesn’t, what motivates him, what makes him fall in love. Remember, these are not momentary strategies, but long-lasting habits and behaviors resulting from understanding the masculine nature and, above all and especially, your husband.