Stay calm and follow these tips.
Relationships have to be kept fresh. With words of affection, respect and above all, interest in what the other person does.
However, it is not an open secret that with the daily coexistence, some details that at the beginning were novel, are now part of a routine. If some friction is added to the latter, then the red alert can begin to sound very closely.
Doesn’t he say good morning to you anymore? Does he sound “tired” or “fed up” when you talk to him on the phone? Would you prefer your cell phone to have a few minutes to chat? Be careful, perhaps it is time to analyze and convince yourself that a distance is brewing.
The site specialized in feminine issues, Ser Seductora points out that the important thing is to identify the causes for which your partner has begun to “paint his line.”
According to the portal Your Accomplice of Love there are five main causes why a man begins to move away and feel that the relationship is going to the freezer.
Here are some suggestions on how to solve them:
This does not depend directly on you and therefore you have to understand it. Your partner may be going through an internal conflict that puts him in a situation where everything positive is covered by fog. What to do? Communication, be patient and try an approach, questions like can I know what happens? They might help you start the conversation. Be careful, do not take it personally if you do not want to talk, try to understand it, let a few hours or days pass to ask again.
Inability to express feelings
This is very common in men, since in a large number of cases, they were raised in an environment in which they could not express what they felt, this, already in adulthood, limits the field with which they can manage their emotions . What to do? Again patience and communication, but here you must integrate an important issue that is not to judge, you are not responsible for the way in which your partner was educated. If possible, go to a specialist for therapy.
There is no money
There is a saying in Mexico that says “When need enters through the door, love leaves through the window.” Financial problems in a long-standing relationship (a marriage for example) is a sensitive issue. The desperation of not having resources (either due to a layoff or because a project caused losses), can lead to very strong fights in which everything can get out of control. What to do? Propose ideas, do not criticize him for the decisions made. Suggest new paths or investments.
Excess of criticism
Surely you do not like many things about him and it is normal, they are different people with common tastes but different backgrounds. But a relationship in which one of the parties feels superior and where the criticism does not stop quickly cools off. What to do? Avoid conflict, use the phrase that mentions “Better seek tranquility instead of being right.” External what you feel but without qualifying what your partner expresses.
Lack of clarity
It is an absolute truth, men do not read the female mind, or anyone else’s. Nothing is more tiring and boring than trying to find out what is going on and answering yourself with questions like “I don’t know, you tell me.” The key to a healthy relationship is honesty, saying all things to yourself in the moment.
How you will see are not simple things, but if there is love in your relationship, it is very likely that you can overcome the problems that arise before you.