They say that “for the wedge to tighten, it must be of the same suit. That is why I have given myself the task of sharing with you common behaviors of some women, which men really dislike.
I don’t think men are from Mars, and women are from Venus. We are, yes, a product of our life experiences, our environment, our education, our time. A time that, although it is true that it has changed to empower women and make men’s positions more flexible, does not prevent us from continuing to perceive ourselves according to old stereotypes.
And as always happens with stereotypes, some are just the easy and comfortable way out to justify behaviors; Others, on the other hand, respond to specific needs to facilitate roles and there is no lack of those that, like it or not, are the result of the conclusion of our own attitudes.
Relee: She believed that all men were from Mars, until she read these words.
I am a woman, and for me it would be easier to make a list of what we dislike about men, such as that it takes years to fulfill what they promise, that being faithful implies so much effort, or that they do not know the meaning of the word “order.” However, they say that “for the wedge to tighten, it must be of the same suit”, that is why I have given myself the task of sharing with you common behaviors of women that men dislike.
It’s also a good idea to review why, despite our differences, we desperately need our husbands.
10 things men repudiate about women
1. Tell our intimacies
It is not that they do not share their concerns with their acquaintances, but they are more selective than us when it comes to doing so. Keep the intimate in that category, intimate.
2. Using inside information to win discussions
They feel vulnerable when they share their secrets with us. Throwing what we know in their face is unworthy and in bad taste. Male or female, please don’t!
3. Force them to play “bad cop”
This point applies to couples with children: that we force them to be the bad guys in front of the children because it is difficult for us to be firm with the punishments hurts their parent-child relationship, and they cannot bear it.
4. That we exaggerate our reactions
Bringing up the account with date, hour and minute of everything that has bothered us in the last century, certainly puts them in a very bad mood. Do not mix past problems with current ones, or you will make them grow older.
5. Do not accept when we are wrong
We make a big mess, but when it becomes evident that the error is ours, we act like the newspapers when faced with the right of reply: the news on the front page, but the clarifications in a tiny space, and in small print.
6. The yo-yo attitude
At this point and at all, I want to clarify that we are not all, but we tend – and I tell myself – to always want to be right, and to be the eternal victims of our insensitive husbands.
7. Use privacy as a bargaining chip
I clarify that I am not speaking in a literal sense, but rather the attitude of using female charms to receive perks. When we act like this, we put down centuries of efforts to be taken seriously.
8. That we do not respect your privacy
Let’s face it: if the cell phone has no password, the wallet is close at hand, or you saw that you put something in the drawer, there is a 99 percent chance that you will end up checking it. Men know it, and it bothers them.
9. Complain all the time
Whether we want to admit it or not, the truth is that we are specialists in seeing the dark side of the moon, and whether or not you are right, not giving rest to your list of nonconformities will end the harmony of any home.
10. Control their lives
We do it with the best intentions and with all the spontaneity of our feminine nature, but the truth is that it would be good to accept that it is our partner, not our pet.
These are only ten that are added to another ten or twenty that make our differences evident, and that put our relationships at risk. And you, what would you add or take away from this list?
If you want to prevent your wife from complaining about you, you will be interested in rereading: 14 ways to make your wife happy.