The First Date

In war and in love anything goes, less to please at the cost of your own personality, but being someone you are not will be noticed sooner or later. What we want is for them to fall in love with who we are.

I must confess that I am not given to that of the first dates. I find the set phrases, the rigorous topics and the stress of wanting it to work uncomfortable, in addition to the fear that they will not call you again even by mistake. However, that first meeting is the one that will decide your sentimental state from “waiting for a miracle” to the “happily in love” that you want so much.

The world of first dates however, and believe it or not, has its code of ethics. Rules that we should not ignore for anything in the world, lest all attempts be doomed to failure. For that reason and because I like happy endings, I share some of the basic rules to avoid making mistakes.

First dates, what yes and what not

1. Where to go?

Ideally, it is a place that offers things to do, silences can be very uncomfortable, especially with people we do not know. The best thing is to opt for spaces that allow filling those gaps, without giving up conversation, laughter and improvisation. By the way, if it is a site that requires a specific type of clothing, let us know! On one occasion they took me to visit the Pyramids of Teotihuacán and I was wearing a skirt, you can imagine the discomfort.

2. Prohibited topics

Don’t start by talking about your relationships, it’s not to be rude, but do you really think she might care? Rather, it is a lose / lose issue. If you speak wonders it will seem that you still love your ex, and if you speak badly you will not be very well off. Politics and religion should be banned, but if you are going to include this or other controversial topics, please do not be imposing in your opinions, leave room for divergent ways of thinking. And please, put the cell phone aside and preferably turn off the sound.

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3. Who pays?

This point is somewhat rugged, many consider that modern times do not require the man to pay, that the woman can also contribute. However, I am a bit old-fashioned, and I do like that the gentleman is the one to settle the account. Obvious it does not always have to be like this, they also need details. But the first time gentlemen, be splendid, and for the next time, girls: make your little storage.

4. Clothing

You don’t have to put the whole bottle of perfume on yourself, but make it look like you put in the effort. Try to have clean nails, in case you did not know, women pay a lot of attention to that. Dirty hands touch us is disgusting. Do not abuse the gel; Seriously, the idea of ​​your hair being Lego-style is not at all attractive. And that the clothes fit you, remember that the idea is to like.

Girls, looking hot is the best, but the line between seductive and desperate is sometimes very thin. Less is more, keep that in mind. They don’t like lipstick marks all over them, neither do sticky lipsticks. And when it comes to clothes, they like to show you off, but they don’t like to make it look like you’re on sale.

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5. Remember to always be you

In war and in love anything goes, less to please at the cost of your own personality, but being someone you are not will be noticed sooner or later. What we want is for them to fall in love with who we are.

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Finally one last piece of advice, try to go out with people with whom you would really like to achieve something more; Well they say that by force nor the shoes. I can give you many advice, but the most important thing is that your head and heart are willing to love, otherwise all effort may be in vain.

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