The feeling of being needed in the couple is as important as love. If your husband still NEEDS you, your relationship is on the right track.
For a relationship to be balanced and healthy, it is important that the couple needs each other. The need for each other is extremely important because when this feeling disappears between a marriage, the end of the relationship may be approaching.
Psychology Today outlines six points to keep in mind to make sure your presence still matters in your relationship. If you sometimes wonder if he would notice if you disappeared from his life, then it is time you read on and took action on the matter.
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1. Your husband is still open to you
It is not only about not keeping secrets from each other, but that he still sees you as an important person in his life who not only can he trust, but he does it because he needs your opinion and your ears. He tells you the good and bad things in his life because just by telling you he feels relief.
“Research on the subject supports the conclusion that the fact that the members of the couple are open towards each other is a favorable behavior that increases intimacy and romance in couples.”
2. Your husband uses you as a scorer
Nothing is nicer than having someone you can ask to make you remember to take the doctor’s turn and buy that gift for your best friend’s birthday, which you always forget.
This simple behavior denotes, according to experts, the presence of a need for one another. According to a study conducted in 2014 by Harris, Barnier, Sutton and Kelly, this social activity of distributing knowledge between the two members of the couple gives them more advantages while they travel the world together.
3. Your husband is part of your social circle
We are all different and no matter how good people we are, it is one hundred percent impossible for everyone to like us. However, this should not be an excuse for not integrating your partner into your social circle.
According to the researchers, if your partner gives you the opportunity to share their social circle and you reciprocate, it means that both of you consider yourself a necessary piece of the puzzle that you both built.
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4. They share responsibilities
If you pay attention to the amount of things you do together as couples, you can immediately see how much you both need. When a couple comes together, and both decide to share their lives, in some way, the two become one person and the more responsibilities they share as couples, the more they need each other.
5. Your husband seeks comfort from you
This is one of the great signs of how a person may need you. When my grandmother was ill and I was thousands and thousands of miles away, just thinking that she could leave paralyzed every part of my body. In that moment I realized how much I needed my husband.
If you are still the solace of your husband, calm then, because there is love there for a while.
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6. When your husband wants to achieve something use your support
He tells you what he is working on and what he wants to achieve in his life, and then lets you know that he knows he will achieve it only if you will be there by his side to support him.
This along with the other five behaviors are the clearest signs that your husband still needs you and much more than the first day. You can be sure that you are not a guest in her life, you are HIS LIFE.